A bespoke relationship deepening 1:1 coaching program for women are looking to shift the quality of their relationship and be in right relationship with their dog through deep and meaningful attunement
Step into a 3 or 6 months’ journey of high touch support to attune to your dog and build a deeper connection with them and yourself.
What if your relationship with your dog was the mirror that showed you everything you need to know about how you relate to love, safety, boundaries and presence?​​​
What if your dog was there not just to be loved - but to teach you how to love yourself more deeply too?
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In my coaching spaces with women guardians, what they have desired the most is...clarity and balance.
They seek answers to - are they doing enough? Are they doing right by their dog? Are they causing them harm without even realising it? They want to feel in balance between softness and assertion, between freedom and boundaries, without compromising safety for their dog and themselves.
These conversations reveal the tension between what we intuitively feel and what we are told to do in the name of care. This tension carries conscious and unconscious beliefs, mindsets and scripts that are so deeply internalised by us.
Look at some of the advice thrown around on caregiving for dogs - "if you are too indulgent with your dog, they will take you for a ride" or "you have to show them who’s alpha" or "too much freedom means you won’t be able to control your dog."
So many of the women I work with have heard these, cringed at them, knowing in their bones that something about this doesn't feel right but accepted them anyway because that's what seemed to be "legit".
But what if I told you (and even confirmed to you) that...
The origins of these idea are in toxic, oppressive systems that require a space to decondition from and change the script for our dogs, ourselves. That they aren't really rooted in care but in varying degrees of control that don't honour mutuality and partnership with our dogs.
To attune to your dog means deeply feeling that clarity and balance in your heart, soul, mind and body.
It is to cut out the noise that isn’t serving you to have an authentic relationship with your dog and instead, lean into your own wisdom and the wisdom offered by your dog. ​
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When we learn how to attune to our dogs, it becomes an opportunity for us to be led and guided by their wisdom and lovingness, and even embrace healing.
You are a deeply feeling, soulful, intuitive dog guardian.
You see that your relationship with your dog is special - there’s something about your connection that cannot be described in words, it’s something you and they feel. And you want to nourish and nurture it.
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You're coming into touch with seeing your dog as a mirror to your models of care, attachment patterns, beliefs about freedom and control.
And you are ready to lean into those reflections and heal from past imprints and create new visions for the future.
You desire to live with confidence, feeling empowered and in sync with your dog. You recognise your dog as a being outside of you worthy of care, and the “right” care.
In every moment spend with them, you are called into a deeper connection - to hold their vulnerability and aliveness. Their existence makes a silent bid to you every day - "Recognise me. I am here.” But this is also asking you to hold your own vulnerability and aliveness too.
And you are ready to start that journey of self-inquiry, knowledge and liberation.
We live in a world that teaches us to:
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Strive rather than soften
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Fix rather than feel
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Dominate rather than dialogue
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Extract rather than exchange
And these values don’t stop at the borders of industry, career, or economics—they seep into our relationships. Into our homes. Into the ways we speak to and relate to our dogs. And everyone around us.
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You may not have had words for it, but you’ve felt it:
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The discomfort in asking you to shut down your dog’s voice.
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The hollowness of tactics that lacked connection.
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The tightness in your chest when your dog struggled, and you felt pressure to correct instead of comfort.
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The grief of realising you were taught to lead through fear, not love
Attune offers a sanctuary to unpack this grief. ​
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It is a space that holds as you decondition from all the ways colonialism, capitalism and patriarchy shackle and suffocate relational safety.
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It is a space where you can begin again...
You are at the cusp of shifting your relationship with your dog to something sacred, potent and transformative.
And this is an invitation to...
Reclaim and remember what is lost...
To rewild.
To reconnect.
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To re-root in an authentic way of being with dogs—one that is reciprocal, relational and liberatory.
Are you ready step into right relationship with your dog and yourself?
A BESPOKE RELATIONSHIP DEEPENING 1:1 COACHING PROGRAM FOR WOMEN WHO ARE LOOKING TO SHIFT THE QUALITY OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP AND BE IN RIGHT RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR DOG THROUGH DEEP AND MEANINGFUL ATTUNEMENT.
Step into a 3 or 6 months’ journey of high touch support to attune to your dog and build a deeper connection with them and yourself.
This is not dog training.
This is relational healing - guided by your most loyal teacher.
In ATTUNE, you'll be gently guided to explore how your nervous system, beliefs and patterns shape the energy between you and your dog. You'll learn how to shift from reacting to relating, from controlling to co-regulating.
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And in doing so, open the door to transformation that ripples through every area of your life.
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In this 3 or 6 months' coaching journey, I will guide you to:
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Build a relationship with your dog rooted in mutual trust, understanding and emotional clarity
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Discover how your attachment patterns and relational beliefs play out their bond with your dog
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Develop deeper self awareness, embodied presence and relational safety - starting with the relationship right in front of you
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Create new visions for how can you show up in all your relationships
What does attunement feel like?​​​
It feels like invisible threads connecting your heart with your dog's, where stillness and quiet moments feel like such magical connection;
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It's those moments when you catch your dog's eye and know what they might need - reassurance or a playful touch; maybe some closeness; or even just their own space.
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It's knowing that you don't need cues or commands to communicate because you have your own language, way with each other, that feels connecting and magical.
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It's knowing that in their presence, you can be child-like and safe; that you can reimagine playfulness, repair and care together.
What we explore in Attune:
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Over the 3/6 months 1:1 coaching container, we will deep dive into your relationship with your dog through these lenses:
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🦋 Foundations of connection - exploring how you can come back home to the bond you share with your dog
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🦋 Practicing presence and attunement - facilitating deep listening and energetic harmony in your relationship with your dog
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🦋 Care as a mirror - being witness to your whole self, lights & shadows, in how you nurture
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🦋 Emotions as communication - expanding your capacity to listen beneath the surface, both for your dog and yourself
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🦋 Asserting boundaries and protective energy - openness in holding space and honouring needs, your dog's and yours
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🦋 Fostering trust and safety - learning to build a secure and loving connection with your dog and yourself
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🦋 Play and joy as praxis - reconnecting with lightness and fun
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🦋 Conflict, frustration and growth - expanding our capacity to embrace discomfort for transformation without compromising safety
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🦋 Coregulation & healing - building deep emotional connection and opening up hearts to mutual healing
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🦋 Integration & rituals - creating meaningful, personal rituals for lasting connection
Who This Is For
This space is for:
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The dog parent who wants a relationship that feels mutual, respectful and emotionally safe
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The caregiver who wants to go deeper into understanding their own inner world while holding space for their dog’s
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The companion who’s disillusioned with obedience culture and craving real connection
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The activist who sees how all oppression is connected—including the ways we relate to animals
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The seeker who's drawn to spiritual or somatic work, and you're ready to ground it in real, embodied, relational practice
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You do not need to be perfect, radical or experienced.
You only need to be willing.
Willing to feel, to reflect, to unlearn, and to begin again.
Imagine...
Feeling so deeply attuned to your dog that you are moving through cycles of life together with understanding and synchronicity
Experiencing true partnership with your dog where equality, agency and emotional interiority are witnessed, honoured and celebrated
Reimagining relationships with yourself and others around you because you leaned into your relationship with your dog as a mirror
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Silently (or loudly) but powerfully rebelling against oppressive, controlling and harmful systems and claiming your softness as power
Hi! I'm Surabhi...
When I first adopted my dogs, I was just looking to...have dogs around me. Never in my wildest dreams did I think about what that relationship would facilitate for me. My dogs held up different mirrors for me - one showed me how interwoven contorted yang systems were in my care and the other reflected back an inner child carrying grief and rage.
Getting into right relationship with them was hard, patient and uncomfortable work but...it was absolutely essential. And it gave me the gift of safety in connections and the power of fearlessly caring.
Inside ATTUNE, I serve as your personal coach guiding and supporting you as take on this transformative work with your dog (and yourself), drawing upon my 8+ years of experience in coaching women across the globe and as a changemaker rooted in education equity and as a Level 4 ethical canine behaviour consultant and applied ethologist.
"I met Surabhi at a very troubled point in my life last year. Having done therapy consistently, I had a feeling I needed more support and more intuitive help from someone who was uniquely qualified and that's where Surabhi came in. I have shared some very deep, dark things with Surabhi, that I have not felt safe to share with my own therapist. It's one of the safest spaces I've shared with another human being.
I struggled to comprehend what I really wanted because of internal and external fears and being attached to an outcome. This choice felt like life or death to me, and it helps to have someone empathetic and objective to look at it and offer different perspective. A gentle course correction and perspective shift is what is needed to navigate rough waters.
Not celebrating all the small wins I was having everyday, and getting stuck in a heavy cycle of self-mandated cycle of constant growth, meant I was in discomfort constantly. She taught me, you can try and become a better person, along with celebrating your wins. All our sessions ended with her asking me, 'What's something you want to celebrate about yourself today?', in the first few sessions, it made me deeply uncomfortable, firstly because I didn't notice all the things I was doing that was worth celebrating and secondly it felt odd to speak them into existence, but Surabhi gave me the observation skill and the language to articulate it. Something that started as her voice in my head has slowly become my own.
This voice she has empowered, has gotten me through some very rough days. I feel confident and ready to make decisions with more ease and less like a tiger is chasing me. One of the wisest decisions I've made is choosing her to be my coach and it's changed my life."
- K, Design Consultant & Dog Mom
What's included in ATTUNE:
6/12 Private 1:1 Coaching Calls
We meet every fortnight to for deep, personalised coaching.These sessions are where we explore your story, your relational patterns and the dynamic between your dog and you. Think of this as nervous system work meets relational alchemy - with your dog as your co-guide.
OPTIONAL 3-hours dog behaviour consultation
You can also opt in for a comprehensive behaviour session (inclusive of postural assessment) for your dog if you feel like that clarity will help you further in deepening your relationship with your dog
Call replays
You will have access to all call recordings for you to go back to and reflect on or access bits that felt powerful or insightful to you.
BONUS Masterclasses
Join a small group of like-hearted monthly/once in two months for live masterclasses on attachment, boundaries, somatic safety and more.
Your investment for 3 months: $555
Your investment for 6 months: $1110
Or payment plan of $185/month for 3/6 months
Note: Currently offering heavily discounted pricing for Indian residents.
Only 7 spots open!
What clients say ...
With so much information around it can get a bit overwhelming for a dog parent. Surabhi did a great a job by simply not imposing her ideology but presenting a different perspective to help understand my dog better. There is an honest effort in matching your pace and convenience, at the same time ensuring there is full focus on your needs as a dog parent. Highly recommend the sessions."
- Y, dog mom
The behaviour consultation was a rather focussed dialogue where there were lots of inputs and suggestions to help me and the dogs. There was structure that focussed on all aspects of the dogs’ welfare. Today’s coaching session on the other hand was a lot more free flowing and allowed me to touch upon so many things that otherwise just live in my head. I came away from it feeling a little lighter, even though it was a lot of emotional work.
- A, dog mom to 2 dogs
Surabhi has amazing depth and understanding. She will initiate you into building a better relationship with your dog and a better understanding of them.
It’s such a holistic and empathetic approach that will open up the world of dogs for you.
- J, dog mom to 2 dogs
This is patient, sacred work.
This isn't about adding more. ​It’s about subtracting. Unraveling the scripts you were handed.
Remembering the truths your body and your dog already know.
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It is quiet work. Gentle work. But it is also world-shifting.
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Because every time we choose connection over control, every time we pause to listen instead of command; every time we refuse to replicate systems of harm in our homes—we are doing the work of liberation.
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Step into a space where you and your dog can both be more fully seen.
Where your instincts matter. Where their voice matters. Where care is not obedience, but collaboration.
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This is your invitation.
To do the sacred, subtle, radical work of reimagining what it means to love, to lead, and to live—together.​
Frequently Asked Questions
What kind of time commitment is involved?
We meet every other week for a 75-90 mins private coaching session. You'll also have access to monthly or once in two months masterclass that will be recorded. Outside of that, you may want to set up reflection or integration time but this a spacious, nervous system-friendly container. Which means that while the structure of the calls is set, what we explore in each call is based on your own comfort, pace and how safe you feel in exploring specific themes.
Is this a dog training program?
Not in the traditional sense. While we do explore behaviour, Attune is not about obedience or control - it's about relationship. This program helps you understand your dog's behaviour through the lens of attachment, safety and nervous system attunement. Think of it as relational healing, with your dog as your co-guide.
I'm dealing with some behaviour challenges with my dog. Will this help?
Yes - if you opt for the additional 3 hours behaviour session, we can explore what's happening beneath that behaviour for your dog. Across the coaching journey, we will be exploring the emotional and energetic dynamics that influence behaviour at its root.
What if I've never done any personal development or coaching work before?
That's completely okay! This program meets you where you are. You don't need any experience - just a willingness to be open, curious and honest with yourself. If you feel drawn to the work, you belong here.
What if I've done a lot of inner work already? Will this go deeper?
Likely, yes. Attune offers a unique portal to your relational patterns through your connection with your dog - a lens that many haven't explored, even after years of personal development. It brings your healing into the body, your home and your every day interactions. That's where real change happens.
Can I join if my dog has passed away recently or isn't living with me?
The program is designed for women currently living with their dogs and seeking to deepen their relationship in real-time. if you're grieving a loss or navigating distance, you're welcome to reach out to explore alternative support. I'd be honoured to hold space for that journey in another way.
What happens after I apply?
Once you submit the application, I will reach out to you within 48 hours to schedule a free connection call. This is a no pressure conversation to explore alignment, answer any questions and ensure the program feels right for your dog and you.
Do you offer refunds?
This program is not refundable, given the high value resources you get access to as soon as you join the space. That being said, while it is perfectly normal to feel some nervousness around making an investment, it is also important that the thought of initiating this journey brings up excitement and hope for you too. Let your investment into this relationship-changing work be from a place of trusting yourself, your vision and your desire to be soulfully connected to your dog.