Attune
A bespoke coaching journey into emotional liberation and soulful connection with your dog, yourself, and the relationships that shape your world.
You’re showing up, you’re trying - but it still feels like you and your dog are missing each other. The connection you know is there, remains just out of reach.
You know your relationship with your dog is something special — something deeper than words can capture. It’s more than just about obedience or behaviour. It’s a felt sense between you and your dog, a quiet understanding that lives in the space between you. And you want to honour that. You want to nourish it, protect it, and let it grow.
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Because deep down, you sense that this connection holds more than just companionship. It’s fertile ground — a doorway into deeper emotional and spiritual fulfillment.
But something feels… off. Out of sync.
Maybe you’ve been relying on “alpha” advice rooted in control and dominance, but it only seems to create more disconnection — not closeness.
Maybe you’ve bounced from one trainer or expert to another, only to find temporary fixes that don’t touch the heart of the relationship.
Or maybe you’re overwhelmed by all the outside noise and haven’t had the space to turn inward and trust your own knowing.
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What you’re truly longing for is something deeper — a way of guiding your dog with love rather than control or fear, and finding a natural balance between freedom and boundaries.
You want to meet your dog’s needs without abandoning your own, and create a sense of emotional safety where they genuinely feel that you’ve got their back.
You’re seeking a relationship rooted in ease, mutual trust, and thriving coexistence, one where both of you feel seen, safe, and supported.
Most of all, you want to move beyond second-guessing yourself and begin moving in this relationship with calm confidence and self-trust.
This is the heart of what ATTUNE is here to offer you.
You've been made to think that there is a training issue.
But what is really showing up is your relational blueprint.
When we step into relationship with our dogs, we don’t come empty.
We carry the imprints of every bond we’ve known, held in our breath, our posture, the quiet ways our bodies brace for impact or reach out for connection.
Old attachment patterns, inherited beliefs about love, control, and safety—they live in us, often unnoticed.
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And our dogs feel it all.
They respond not just to our actions, but to our nervous systems including the tension we hold, the way we pull close or push away.
They may mirror our anxiety, retreat when we’re distant, or explore limits when we’re unclear.
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Not because they’re difficult but because they’re deeply attuned to us.
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In that mirroring, they offer us something profound:
an invitation to relate differently.
It starts in the body. In softening where we grip. In noticing before reacting. In choosing presence over control.
From this place, we begin to build trust, not obedience.
Boundaries become rooted in care. Connection becomes something felt.
And as we show up differently for them, we learn to show up differently for ourselves.
Your relationship with your dog is the mirror that shows you everything you need to know about how you relate to love, safety, boundaries and presence...
Because the way you connect with your dog isn’t separate from the way you connect with life...it’s woven from the same threads.
The moments you shut down or overextend, the urge to control or the fear of being too much. They all show up here, in this sacred relationship.
And the beauty is, your dog isn’t asking you to be perfect.
They’re asking you to be present.
To meet them with honesty, with softness, with courage.
And in doing so, you begin to meet yourself.
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You begin to attune to yourself and your dog.
Attunement then starts to feel like​
like invisible threads connecting your heart with your dog's, where stillness and quiet moments feel like such magical connection;
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It's those moments when you catch your dog's eye and know what they might need - reassurance or a playful touch; maybe some closeness; or even just their own space.
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It's knowing that you don't need cues or commands to communicate because you have your own language, way with each other, that feels connecting and magical.
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It's knowing that in their presence, you can be child-like and safe; that you can reimagine playfulness, repair and care together.
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It feels like a recognition that what you practice in companionship with your dog can be shared in all other relationships in your life.
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It is witnessing safety and care outside of oppression and control and knowing that you can claim the same for yourself too.
Attunement then also becomes about your nervous system, your emotional patterns, your capacity for connection, and the way you show up in relationship.
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In Attune, your dog becomes a compassionate mirror for your inner world.
As you learn to relate to your dog with greater presence, clarity and emotional honesty, you begin to:
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Soften old self-protective patterns
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Build embodied safety in relationship
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Rewire how you respond to conflict, emotion, and attachment
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Learn what it feels like to be attuned to, and attuned with — not only your dog, but yourself, and others around you
This isn't just about your dog.
It's about the ripple effect that begins when you start this journey of attunement.
Client Story: Trupti
When Trupti came into this work, she was overwhelmed. Disconnected from her dog in a way that felt confusing and painful.
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They had once been deeply attuned to each other. But after time apart, something had shifted. They were close but not quite connected. She sensed the gap, but didn’t know what caused it or how to bridge it. The noise of conflicting advice only added to her doubt.
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What she wanted was simple: to feel close to her dog again. To understand him, to show up for him in the way her heart knew was possible.
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Instead of rushing to fix the surface, she slowed down. She got clear on the kind of relationship she wanted to rebuild.
She stopped looking at her dog as the one who needed to change, and started looking inward - at the stories, patterns, and fears shaping how she was relating to him.
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That’s when things began to shift.
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She started showing up with more presence. More steadiness. More trust in herself. She began responding, not reacting. Her nervous system started to become a place of safety - for both of them.
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In just a few weeks, the reconnection was tangible. She felt more confident in supporting him during moments of distress and began allowing herself to lean on him, too.
Their bond deepened.
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Now, she’s ready to go even further - into mutuality, into co-regulation, into a relationship that supports both of them.
“I used to carry the pressure to fix everything - his emotions, mine - without actually holding space for either. Through Attune, I’ve started experiencing stillness, mutual support, and a kind of peaceful companionship I didn’t know was possible. It’s like my dog was waiting for me to meet him here all along.”
Attune isn't a siloed journey.
It’s a transformation that ripples into every part of your life.
The shifts you make here change how you speak to yourself, how you hold space during conflict, and how you attune to your partner, your children, your clients, and your wider community.
As you build deeper emotional safety with your dog, you begin to feel safer within yourself, more at home in your body, more grounded in the world, and more connected in every relationship you touch.
This is not dog training.
It is relational healing — guided by your most loyal teacher.
Attune isn’t about fixing your dog’s behaviour. It’s about uncovering what your relationship is trying to teach you. Traditional dog training often focuses on obedience, control, and outcomes. But what if the real transformation happens when we shift from managing behaviour to nurturing connection?
We move beyond the surface to explore the emotional undercurrents shaping your bond with your dog and how those patterns mirror the way you show up in all your relationships.
This is relationship coaching that is rooted in nervous system awareness, emotional honesty, and embodied presence.
You’ll begin to recognise how your attachment patterns, belief systems, and inner narratives impact not just how you relate to your dog, but how you relate to yourself. Through this work, you build a foundation of trust and co-regulation that allows both you and your dog to feel safe, understood, and truly seen.
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Your dog becomes a mirror, a guide, and a partner in your healing. And as you deepen this connection, the ripple effects extend outward — changing how you set boundaries, hold space for others, respond in moments of stress, and access a deeper, more compassionate version of yourself.
This isn’t about control. It’s about coming into right relationship — with your dog, and with your own inner world.
Hi, I'm your coach, Surabhi and here's why I created Attune
"When I first adopted my dogs, I was just looking to...have dogs around me. Never in my wildest dreams did I think about what that relationship would facilitate for me.
My dogs have consistently held up mirrors for me, revealing parts of my inner world that I may not have always been ready to confront and move through.
I felt the signs...
...the tinge of guilt when I was doing something that just didn't feel right; the dysregulation I felt in my body while moving through difficult emotions with my dog; the resentment I felt when despite doing so much, my dogs wouldn't just listen to me; the cycles of shame I would spiral in when I poorly handled a situation but didn't know how to repair; the feeling that while my dog and I were close, I could still sense a distance between us.
At one point, I could no longer ignore the signs.
They were no longer whispers but my body screaming for a new way of relating.
And so in doing that work, I learned (and unlearned) relational skills to be in right relationship not just with my dogs...but with my partner, with my family, with my colleagues and friends and most importantly, myself.
Inside ATTUNE, I serve as your personal coach guiding and supporting you as take on this transformative work with your dog (and yourself), drawing upon my 8+ years of experience in coaching women across the globe and as a changemaker rooted in education equity and as a Level 4 ethical canine behaviour consultant and applied ethologist."
K, Design Consultant
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"One of the wisest decisions I've made is choosing her to be my coach and it has changed my life."
This voice Surabhi has empowered for me, has gotten me through some very rough days. I feel confident and ready to make decisions with more ease and less like a tiger is chasing me.
Inside Attune, you'll be gently guided to explore how your nervous system, beliefs and patterns shape the energy between you and your dog.
You'll learn how to shift from reacting to relating, from controlling to co-regulating.
And in doing so, open the door to transformation that ripples through every area of your life. We will move through these 3 pillars of the Attune framework in this coaching journey.
PILLAR ONE:
Relational Awareness
Your dog is not separate from your inner world — they’re often reflecting your emotional landscape, attachment patterns, and unconscious beliefs.
You will learn to unpack how your early relational imprints influence how you show up in connection, identify where control, fear, or reactivity are rooted in protection rather than presence and reframe behavioural challenges as invitations to deepen your own emotional clarity.
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This is about insight — it brings light to what’s been running in the background of your relationship.
PILLAR TWO:
Somatic
Attunement
Dogs speak nervous system.
They don’t respond to words — they respond to the energy beneath them. When you're grounded and attuned, they relax into connection.
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You will learn how to track and work with your nervous system states, try practices to move from dysregulation into embodied safety and learn how to co-regulate with your dog in a way that fosters trust, calm, and mutual understanding.
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This is the heart of the transformation — not just knowing what to do, but embodying a new way of being.
PILLAR THREE:
Conscious Relating
We’ll begin rewriting the story of your relationship — not as one based on obedience or correction, but on emotional honesty, mutual respect, and real connection.
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You will explore how to set boundaries that are both clear and compassionate, how to respond rather than react — to your dog, and to yourself and most importantly, how to create a relational dynamic based in attunement, curiosity, and trust.
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This is about supporting you in showing up differently — for your dog, yes, but also in how you relate to life, love, conflict, and emotion as a whole.
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This isn’t just about you and your dog.
It’s about what begins to heal in all your relationships when you finally let yourself feel the full depth of this one.
What you'll receive inside Attune
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Bi-monthly 1:1 coaching calls with me
Where you meet your inner world
Every two weeks, we meet for 90 minutes. Where you have the spaciousness to bring up any story or lived experience that's feeling most alive for you.
Together, we explore its textures and how it's shaping how you relate to your dog and yourself.
We engage in real time relational alchemy.
We name the feelings. We own the sensations.
And we then create room for new threads of connection - to our inner world, to our dogs' and to the relational field between the two of you.
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Private podcast of somatic attunement journeys
Where your nervous system meets your dog's
Nervous system expansion journeys to support you in between sessions as you open up to releasing control in your body and expand to moving in your relationship with your dog with ease, connection, play, presence and more.
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Complimentary access to The Sanctum, my Telegram membership
Where your lean into community support and witnessing
Join like-minded women in this intimate community as you foster new visions for relational safety and coregulation. Get access to soul-shifting audio codes, monthly Q&As and more.
A glimpse into our partnership together...
"I felt the shift right after the first session. I was able to move into so much ease with my dog and I saw my dog opening up to me, which was so special!"
T, make up artist & dog mom
"I didn't realise how much pressure I was putting on my dog. That brings up a lot of guilt but also clarity on what I need to do differently. That gives me hope that our relationship isn't beyond repair."
P, educator & dog mom
"I now have a vision for my relationship with my dog that's anchored in our reality and context, and not coming from Instagram. This feels so authentic and empowering."
T, finance consultant & dog mom
Attune is for you if you...
You feel a deep, soulful connection with your dog and and you know there’s more to explore beneath the surface of behaviour.
You’re sensing disconnection, frustration, or tension in your relationship with your dog and, you're ready to move beyond quick fixes or obedience-based methods.
You’re curious about how your own nervous system, attachment patterns, and inner narratives shape your bond with your dog.
You’re open to inner work and emotional healing - and willing to look at how your relationship with your dog reflects your patterns with yourself and others.
You’re tired of bouncing between trainers, techniques, and advice that doesn’t feel aligned or sustainable.
You value presence, intuition, and emotional safety and want to embody those qualities more fully, for yourself and your dog.
You want support that goes deeper than behaviour modification, something that helps you build lasting trust, clarity, and co-regulation.
You see your dog as a teacher, mirror, and partner and you’re ready to honour that sacred relationship through conscious, embodied relating.
Attune is a space to slow down, soften, and tend to what truly matters — your bond with your dog and yourself.
INVESTMENT OPTIONS
6 months' coaching journey
US $2400 (early bird pricing at USD 1800)
Or 6 x monthly payments of US $400
Payment plans are here to serve your spaciousness — not your scarcity.
Ready to say yes?
This is your invitation to tend to the bond between you and your dog in a way that heals, reveals, and transforms.
When you step into this journey, you’re not investing in tools — you’re choosing presence over pressure, trust over tactics, and a new way of relating that ripples through every part of your life.
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Applications are now open. Only 3 spots open!
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Every application is personally read and responded to.
You are at the cusp of shifting your relationship with your dog to something sacred, potent and transformative.
And this is an invitation to deeply attune with your dog and yourself.