Attune

For dog moms who want to be the kind of person their dog blindly trusts.

A 6-month private relational mentorship for women who want a calm, safe, deeply connected relationship with their dog - and the self-trust to inhabit it.

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If you’re here, something in this relationship probably feels heavier than it should.

Not because you don’t love your dog. But because you care so deeply about getting it right.

You might recognise yourself in some of these:

~ You constantly wonder if you’re doing something wrong

~ Your dog’s emotions affect you more than you expected

~ You feel responsible for their happiness and safety

~ When something goes wrong, you replay the moment for hours

~ You’ve read everything you can find but still feel unsure

~ People around you don’t quite understand why this matters so much to you

And beneath all of that, there’s a quieter longing:

You don’t want to manage your dog all the time.

You don’t want to feel tense every time something unpredictable happens.

You want a relationship that feels:

calm,
safe,
built on trust.

You don’t want a perfectly behaved dog. You want a dog who feels safe with you.

And you want to know, deeply, that your dog can trust you.

The part that often goes unspoken

Many women who arrive here have experienced loss, upheaval, or moments when life felt unpredictable:

- Death of a loved one

- Divorce or family separation

- Trauma, chaos, or major transitions

And their dog has become more than a companion - they become a steady presence, a mirror, a source of emotional support.

You may also recognise yourself as someone who takes on responsibility deeply:

- You over-function for your dog, family, or yourself

- You read every signal, second-guess every action

- You carry guilt even when you’ve done everything “right”

And finally, many of you have noticed something remarkable about your dog:

They reflect your inner world. Your tension, anxiety, joy, and presence.

They cannot pretend. They cannot intellectualise. They simply respond to what is true in the moment.

This makes them the most honest relational mirrors you will ever encounter.

And it also makes you long for one thing above all:

to be someone your dog can trust.

The deeper truth...

Your dog has never been responding primarily to your intentions.

They respond to your nervous system.Your patterns. The emotional field you carry into the relationship.

Which is why training alone rarely fixes the dynamic.

Because what your dog reflects isn’t just behaviour. It’s also you.

And when you learn to shift your presence, your nervous system, and your patterns, everything changes:

~ Your dog feels safer and more confident

~ You stop spiralling after difficult moments

~ Your relationship becomes repairable, steady, and clear

~ Your capacity for calm, trust, and connection carries into other areas of your life

What Attune Actually Is:

Attune is a 6-month private relational mentorship.

There are no modules, no rigid protocols, no one-size-fits-all techniques.

Instead, we work together at the level underneath behaviour:

~ Your nervous system patterns under stress

~ Your attachment responses in the dog relationship and beyond

~ Your reflex to over-function, control, or withdraw

~ Your boundaries: where they dissolve and why

~ Your fear of getting it wrong and what it costs

~ Your capacity to repair after rupture: quickly, cleanly, without collapse

Your dog is part of the work. But so are you.

And both of you are approached with deep respect and care.

How you are supported inside Attune

This work requires honesty. But it never asks you to face yourself alone.

Inside Attune you will be:

~ Witnessed when things feel confusing

~ Supported when old patterns surface

~ Celebrated as your capacity grows

~ Gently guided when you feel overwhelmed

We work together across 6 months, in 12 private 90-minute sessions.

Each session is personalised, unhurried, and precise, moving fluidly between:

~ What is happening with your dog

~ What is happening in your body

~ What is happening in your relational patterns

We map stress responses, identify attachment dynamics, practice repair, and build regulation capacity -

all so you can become the steady presence your dog can trust.

"This has fundamentally shifted how I see my relationship with my animals. It's just really good to have these conversations with someone who understands because not a lot of people really understand the relationship we can have with our dogs. So it has been really good to deconstruct that inside Attune.”

- Sydney

... shifted out of second-guessing herself to feeling more confident, self-assured and empowered with the relationship she was building with her dogs.

"With Surabhi’s guidance, I began to see our enmeshment not as something shameful, but as something to gently untangle. I learned to accept help and let others support me without guilt. That balance has brought security for both of us.

People used to say I worried too much about Waldo, and I hated that. I wasn’t the problem -I just needed someone to help me understand what was happening. Now, our relationship feels calmer, clearer, and more connected. Waldo and I are finally learning together."

- Tarsha

... shifted out of emotional dependence on her dog to building a community of support for herself, allowing both her and dog's needs to be met outside of their connection

What We Actually Do Together:

This is high-touch, personalised mentorship.

Over 6 months, you receive:

12 private 90-minute sessions, held bi-monthly.

Each session moves fluidly between:

What is happening with your dog
What is happening in your body
What is happening in your relational patterns

We:

Map your stress responses in real time
Identify attachment dynamics in your dog relationship
Practice repair conversations and post-rupture recalibration
Repattern guilt-driven over-functioning
Build nervous system literacy and regulation capacity
Strengthen clean, compassionate boundaries
Develop co-regulation that feels stable

This is not advice-giving - it is guided integration.

You do not leave with checklists but with embodied skill.

The Ripple Effect

When your nervous system becomes steadier, more obviously, your dog softens.

But more than that: you show up differently... with your partner. With your family. With colleagues. With conflict. With yourself.

Because the patterns you practice with your dog are not isolated - they are relational templates.

And Attune changes the template.

The version of you that you'll be growing into...

By the end of this work, you will have become someone who:

~ Trusts her own perception

~ Responds instead of reacts

~ Holds boundaries without guilt

~ Repairs quickly after tension

~ Allows her dog to be a dog without constant worry

~ Creates a sense of safety and trust in the relationship

And your dog will begin to reflect that trust back.

Because when you feel safe, your dog can feel safe too.

This Is For You If:

~ You feel emotionally entangled or over-responsible

~ You oscillate between control and collapse

~ You struggle to repair after tension

~ You want a relationship built on clarity, not intensity

~ You are willing to examine your own patterns honestly

~ You are ready for real relational growth

This Isn't For You If:

~ You want guaranteed behaviour outcomes

~ You are looking for dominance-based or corrective methods

~ You want quick techniques without inner work

~ You are unwilling to examine your own emotional patterns

~ You prefer surface-level reassurance over deep transformation

This work requires honesty. It is gentle - but not passive.

“I used to carry the pressure to fix everything - his emotions, mine - without actually holding space for either. Through Attune, I’ve started experiencing stillness, mutual support, and a kind of peaceful companionship I didn’t know was possible. It’s like my dog was waiting for me to meet him here all along.”

- Trupti, Dog Mom to Leo

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... shifted out of constant overwhelm and disconnection with her dog to feeling more regulated and confident in responding to moments of distress, reassuring him without urgency.

What Clients Say About Working With Me:

Your Investment:

Attune is a 6-month private mentorship.

~ 12 x 90-minute 1:1 sessions

~ Somatic + relational integration

~ Personalised nervous system mapping

~ Tailored relational support for your dog and you

This level of relational work cannot be rushed.

It requires space, safety, and precision.

For dog moms residing in India:

₹ 90,000

with payment plans starting at ₹15,000/month

For dog moms residing outside of India:

USD 1200

with payment plans starting at USD 200/month

As this body of work continues to deepen and refine, pricing will increase in future cycles to reflect its full scope and demand.

This is the final round Attune will be offered at its current investment level.

Only 2 private mentorship spaces are available.

Step Inside Attune

Hi, I'm Surabhi

For over 10 years, I have coached women globally through relational, nervous system, and leadership transitions.

I hold a Level 4 Diploma in Canine Behaviour and Applied Ethology and have supported over 75+ dog parents navigating reactivity, overwhelm, and relational breakdown.

My work integrates:

Ethical canine behaviour science
Somatic nervous system regulation
Attachment and relational patterning
Feminine leadership development

Your dog is not separate from your emotional world.

Inside Attune, we work with both.

This is your invitation...

If nothing changes:

You will continue over-functioning, second-guessing and carrying emotional weight alone.

And your dog will continue responding to the same field.

If something changes:

The relationship becomes steady. Predictable. Repairable. Safe.

If you are ready to take responsibility for your side of the dynamic
and build a grounded, attuned relationship...

Apply below.

Only two women are admitted at a time.

Step Inside Attune

Start Your Attune Journey!

Frequently Asked Questions

How many calls are there?

The 6 months' coaching journey offers 12 1:1 coaching. These calls happen bi-monthly and usually last 90 mins.

Is this a dog training program?

No — ATTUNE is not about teaching commands or correcting behavior. It’s a relationship-based coaching journey that explores how your nervous system, beliefs, and emotional patterns shape the connection you have with your dog. While you may see behavioural shifts, they’ll be the result of deeper inner and relational transformation — not surface-level techniques.

Is this program right for me if I’ve already worked with dog trainers?

Absolutely. Many people come to ATTUNE after trying multiple trainers or behaviourists, only to realise that techniques alone weren’t addressing the heart of the issue. If you’re craving a more soulful, holistic, and empowering approach — one that includes you in the healing — this may be exactly what you’ve been looking for.

What if I’m new to somatic or relational work?

No experience is necessary. ATTUNE is designed to meet you exactly where you are, with compassion and care. You’ll be gently guided through practices, insights, and tools that build awareness, emotional safety, and connection — all at a pace that honours your nervous system and lived experience.

Can I do this program if my dog is reactive or anxious?

Yes — and in fact, ATTUNE is especially powerful for guardians of sensitive, anxious, or reactive dogs. These dogs are often highly attuned to your inner world, making them incredible mirrors and co-regulators. This work can help you both move from reactivity to relational safety.

What happens after I apply?

If you're application feels like a good fit, I will write back to you within 48 hours with payment details and next steps. Usually, this includes receiving an onboarding pack and calendar details to block our first session.

Is there a payment plan available?

Yes. Flexible payment plans are available to make this work more accessible. The application form will ask for your payment preference.

Do you offer refunds?

This program is not refundable, given the high value resources you get access to as soon as you join the space. That being said, while it is perfectly normal to feel some nervousness around making an investment, it is also important that the thought of initiating this journey brings up excitement and hope for you too.

Have more questions? Send them in to surabhi@luchiandmuttons.com