Feral
An inner circle of women who are finally ready to advocate as fiercely for themselves as they do for their dogs.
And in doing that, build the most honest relationships ever without losing the ones that matter.
You can stop being the good girl who plays by everyone's rules in relationships.
And become someone who sets more honest standards instead by being feral as fuck.
Exactly how you show up with your dog.
Like when a stranger reaches out to touch your dog, and you step in: "They don't like that.” No explanation or performance of sweetness.
Someone offers something you know isn’t right - you don’t fold. There’s no aftermath. No replay or quiet self-correction hours later.
And it feels right. It wasn't comfortable but it was true.
Because nothing in you was leaving. Because you were fully there.
And your dog felt it too. That clarity. That presence. That complete absence of division.
That woman - the one who shows up like that for her dog - she's not a different version of you. She is you.
And you get to make that permanent.
Inside Feral, you stop waiting to receive permission from others to change your relational baseline - because the most important permission in the room is the one you give yourself.
Over 9-months, you'll learn how to let your ferality become structural - something that runs through all of you - instead of it being situational and random.
We shift how you respond in relationships - no longer from a place of automatic, conditioned responses but from choice, awareness and a nervous system that's recalibrated to stay with you in the moments that used to cost you the most. So that you can:
→ Say what's true at the dinner table and feel your body settle instead of brace for the aftermath
→ Hold the boundary with the client who always pushes without replaying it for three days afterward
→ Name your price in a business call without apologising for it before they've even questioned it
→ Ask your partner for what you need, directly, without softening it into something easier to receive
→ Make decisions without scanning the room first without the rapid-fire calculation of how will this land, will they be okay, is this too much
→ Stay in the hard conversation without rushing to resolve it so everyone can be comfortable again
→ Notice the moment the pressure to stay small arrives and not follow it
→ Respond in real time instead of replaying the words you wished you'd said at 2am.
The women in this room are you. Self-aware, deeply relational, fiercely devoted to their dogs - and tired of being the one who gives the most and receives the least. You will recognise each other immediately.
You're not here to understand yourself...
You already do. You can track your patterns. Name your edges. Articulate your dynamics. That’s not where you get stuck.
The edge now is power under pressure.
Can you stay inside your truth when it changes the room? When the person across from you goes quiet in that particular way - and you feel the pull to walk it back, soften it, offer them something easier to hold.
When it disrupts the dynamic that has been running for years and everyone is waiting to see if you'll blink first?
When it risks being misunderstood, disliked, or not chosen - by someone whose opinion still has weight?
When the client pushes back on your price and something in you moves toward the discount before you've even decided.
When the feedback lands and your body knows it's wrong - and you say "thank you, that's really helpful" anyway.
Can you hold your ground without shrinking to be received?
The woman on the other side of this work doesn't replay the conversation at 2am. She had it. She said the thing. And her body settled - instead of bracing for the aftermath.
This space is for you if:
You're deeply self-aware and ready to close the gap between knowing and actually living differently. For good.
You've felt yourself be clear, boundaried, and unapologetic - with your dog, in flashes, in certain moments - and you're ready for that to be your baseline, not your exception.
You're done being the most attuned person in every room and the least attuned to yourself.
You've built something real in your career or business - and you're ready to stop running it on your over-availability, your under-charging, and your inability to disappoint a client without spending three days recovering.
You're done being the one who adapts, softens, and holds everything together - and ready to find out what's possible when the real version of you shows up instead.
You want relationships that are actually mutual. Where you give AND receive. Where you're known - not just loved for the performance of yourself.
Whether the pattern runs loudest in your marriage, your family, your friendships or your business, the work is the same.
The Exit Point™ doesn't care which room it fires in.
Hi, I'm Surabhi...
For years, I’ve sat with women and their dogs in deeply intimate work -
the kind where it’s never really just about the dog.
I’ve watched women learn to honour their dog’s boundaries, then go home and abandon their own.
Watched them advocate for their dog’s safety and consent, while saying yes to things that feel like neither.
Watched them develop extraordinary attunement - and offer none of it inward.
That’s why I built Feral.
Because I couldn’t keep watching the one who learned to read everyone else before herself; the one who found in her dog the first place to practice a different kind of love — and hasn’t yet turned it inward.
I know that split.
Being feral in one relationship, and carefully contained in the rest.
Inside Feral, we change that. It becomes a place where the attunement you’ve given everyone else comes back to you. The boundaries you hold for your dog become your own.You stop practicing a different way of loving — and start living it.
If you’re ready to turn that same devotion inward, I’ll meet you there.
What Happens Inside Feral:
We don't talk around a moment.
You bring the exact moment when you negotiated your ferality.
The conversation you're avoiding, the moment that undid you, the boundary you almost held or the client or relational dynamic that keeps repeating.
And we work with that exact moment.
We slow it down. We track The Exit Point™- where truth was available, and you moved away from it.
And then, we do it again. Without leaving.
Until your body no longer recognises self-abandonment as an option.
Until the response reorganises at the level of instinct— not effort.
So the next time it happens, there is no remembering. There is only what you do differently.
This is not a room where you will be pushed past what you're ready for.
You bring what's alive. We work with what you bring. Nothing is forced. Nothing is extracted.
The room is as safe as the truth you choose to bring into it.
Ready to walk The Feral Path™
This path moves through 3 distinct territories as a living cycle you move through repeatedly - each pass deeper than the last.
You bring a real moment. We work it live, in your body, in real time, with witnesses. You practice responding differently - not in theory, in the actual moment.
That's how the nervous system changes. Not through understanding. Through repetition in real conditions.
9 months of that. In your body, your relationships and in real time.
1. The Scent
You learn to track yourself in real time.
The tightening. The shift. The moment something feels off.
Not after you override it - as it’s happening.
Scent is how dogs orient to the world. And this is where you begin. Learning to trust what you feel before you override it. Before the calculation starts. Before you make yourself easier to be around.
The woman who emerges from this territory doesn't second-guess what she felt. She felt it. She knows.
2. The Growl
Your first honest response.
The clean expression of what is true - this doesn't work. This is what I need. This is where I am — out loud. In the relationship. In the client call. In the room where you've been the most accommodating person for the longest time.
A dog who growls is not being aggressive. She is communicating - clearly, from her actual interior, without apology.
This is the pleasure of integrity. The feeling of your body staying with you as you speak. And nothing splitting or leaking.
3. The Stretch
Where this becomes who you are.
Where you say the thing, hold the boundary, and your system settles instead of spiralling. Where you move into intensity and back out again without losing yourself in either direction.
Nothing lingers. Nothing loops.
The woman you've been in flashes? She stays.
Your Time Inside Feral
+ Personalised Onboarding
You receive a personalised onboarding experience designed to meet you exactly where you are on The Feral Path™.
+ Live Coaching Calls
Monthly Group Coaching Calls: For the moments that keep repeating — the pattern you can name but can't yet stop. You are coached on real situations, in real time, without staying theoretical. The whole group witnesses — and every woman in the room is in the same fire.
Monthly Hot Seat Calls: One woman, one moment and depth. The rest of the group witnesses — not with advice, not with their own story, but with recognition. Where do I see myself in this? Over 9 months every woman gets the seat. Every woman gets the mirror. Both are transformational.
+ Direct access to a private Telegram community
For the moment that's happening right now — before it's over, before you've already left yourself. This is where you're co-regulated, witnessed, supported and so fucking cheered on by the FERAL sisterhood. By women who know exactly what it cost you to say that — and who are not going to let you walk it back.
This is not a room where you have to hold it together. The only performance we're retiring here is the one where you pretend you're fine.
+ 3 Seasonal Feral Challenges
Challenges every trimester. A specific, real, slightly uncomfortable feral moment to practice in your actual life - with your partner, your mother, your client and your own body.
Not a thought experiment. Not a journal prompt.
A real moment practiced, lived, brought back to the group to debrief and deconstruct.
+ A private podcast of audio transmissions that you can go back to again and again
Audio transmissions and somatic journeys — designed to build the capacity to stay with yourself in the moments that ask the most of you. Available through a private podcast so you can listen on a dog walk, in your own time, at your own pace.
Being feral does not mean burning bridges.
It means learning to bring your full self into your closest relationships without disappearing inside them.
To love your parent and disagree with them.
To honour your culture and refuse to be diminished by it.
This is the relational art of belonging to others and belonging to yourself — at the same time.
This is not for you if:
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You're looking for a space where you can observe the work without being changed by it
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You're in a season of crisis that needs immediate, specialist support. If you're navigating acute mental health challenges, a relationship breakdown that needs crisis intervention, or anything that requires one to one clinical care right now — this is not the right container for this moment.
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You're not willing to be uncomfortable in your closest relationships. Some dynamics will shift, some conversations will happen that have been waiting for years. If you're not ready for that — if staying comfortable in your current relationships matters more than becoming honest in them — it's best to wait.
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You're looking for someone to tell you what to do. There is no script for how to have the conversation with your mother or what to say to the client who keeps pushing back on your price.
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You're not ready to receive as well as give. If showing up for yourself in a room full of other women feels impossible right now, give yourself more time.
Feral is a 9-month, high-touch container.
10 women. No more. Because this work requires a room you don't have to hide.
This is not a space you visit. It is a space that changes how you show up in your life.
The Investment:
For women in India:
₹ 1,62,000
with monthly payment plans starting at ₹18,000/month for 9 months.
For women outside of India:
USD $2250
with monthly payment plans starting at USD $250/month for 9 months.
You can pay in full or choose monthly payment plans.
This is the only time Feral will be offered at this level. Investment increases to USD $2700 July 1 onwards.
Feral is an application based container. I read every application personally. If it feels aligned, we have a conversation.
6/10 women have already stepped in. Are you next?
Frequently Asked Questions
1. How is this different from therapy? Therapy gave you the map. FERAL is the territory. Therapy builds insight - the capacity to understand the pattern, trace its origins, name its expression. That work is real and it matters. It's what brought you to the door. But insight lives in the prefrontal cortex. The override lives in the nervous system. And the nervous system is faster. By the time your self-awareness has registered what's happening — the calculation has already run, the override has already completed, the yes has already formed. FERAL works at the level where the pattern actually lives. Not through understanding. Through live, relational, embodied practice — in real moments, in real time, with real witnesses. Because you don't need more insight - you need somewhere to practice.
2. When do we start? The opening ceremony is on 11 July, following which we'll move into a cadence of fortnightly coaching calls.
3. How do I know if I'm ready? If you're asking this question — you're ready. The readiness trap is the good girl's most sophisticated delay tactic. There is always a more healed, more prepared, more deserving version of yourself just around the corner. She's been around the corner for years. FERAL is not for the woman who has finished the work. It's for the woman who has done enough to know that insight alone is never going to be enough — and is ready to find out what is.
4. What's the realistic time commitment per week? The live calls are fortnightly - 90 minutes each. The hot seat calls are monthly - 90 minutes per pod. Beyond that, the transmission library is self-directed — you can listen on a dog walk or while doing chores, on your own time, at your own pace. There is no homework. There is no content to consume before the next call. The work happens in the moments of your actual life — and you bring those moments to the room. Realisticall, 2-3 hours per fortnight for the live calls, plus however much of the transmission library feels relevant and alive to where you are.
5. Will this change how I show up with my dog? Yes - but indirectly. Your dog is part of the relational field where you practice staying with yourself. As your internal pattern shifts, your external relationships shift with it.
6. Is there support or live guidance? Yes. You’ll receive fortnightly live coaching to work directly with what’s arising in real time, not just theory or reflection. You also get community and peer support in between calls through the Telegram community.
7. When are the live calls held? Calls are held usually at 7 PM IST on Saturday/weeknight (to be finalised)
8. What happens after I apply? Your application is reviewed for fit. If aligned, you ’ll be invited into the payment portal. This usually happens 48 hours after you've sent in your application.
9. Do you offer refunds? There are no refunds. Feral is a high-responsibility container — the work only functions when you are fully choosing into it. Investment here is not for access alone, but for participation, attention, and follow-through. This is designed for people who are ready to meet themselves inside that level of commitment.
10. What if I can’t attend all the live calls? All calls are recorded and made available as replays. That said, this is not a passive program — the responsibility is on you to engage with the material and stay in active participation. The work is built through presence, not accumulation.
11. Do I need to have a reactive or difficult dog to join FERAL? No. The dog is not the subject of this work. They are the mirror. The Mirror Principle™ — the observation at the heart of everything I do — is this: once a woman starts untraining her dog, she cannot stop the work from turning on herself. She doesn't need a reactive dog. She needs a relationship with a dog that has shown her something about herself she can't unsee. If you're here, that's something that has already happened.
