Not a fucking good girl anymore
A 2-day immersion in the Feral Woman Archetype™ - from "I have to make it easier to be loved and chosen" to "I choose how I'm met" in relationships and business.
Especially for the woman who learned to be good before she was old enough to choose it.
30-31 May 2026, 6-8 PM IST on Zoom
(+ limited time access to replays)
The dog who changed everything...
When I adopted Mutton, I didn't know she was extremely reactive.
Dog reactive. Noise sensitive. What every conventional trainer would call difficult.
I thought my job was to help her be good. To bark and lunge less.To make herself more acceptable to the world around her.
But the more time I spent with her, the more I found myself just watching her in awe.
Here was a dog who expressed frustration without apology.
Who drew limits even with the people she loved most.
Who didn't shrink or perform ease or tolerate discomfort for the sake of connection.
She was, if I'm honest, the most boundaried being I had ever met. And I found myself wondering:
What if I could be more like her?
And then came the question that unravelled everything:
If Mutton didn't have to be a good girl, why did I?
That question followed me into my marriage. Into my relationship with my mother, my in-laws and my work. It pulled at something I had been carefully keeping in place my whole life.
The kind that started before you're old enough to choose it.
When you learned that being loved and being accommodating are the same thing.
That unraveling has led me here:
To a business that crossed what I made in my corporate career.
To a marriage I was ready to walk away from - that I chose to rebuild.
To relationships that are genuinely mutual.
Not because I got better at being a good girl.
But because I finally stopped giving a fuck about it.
This expansion wasn't luck.
It was a posture I chose - repeatedly, imperfectly, in the exact moments it was hardest to hold.
And I know where you might be:
→ You can see the pattern as it's happening — and still can't stop it
→ You've had flashes - in conversations, with your dog - and then lost the thread.
→ You've done the work. You understand the patterns. And you're still abandoning yourself on a Tuesday.
That's exactly what this immersion is built for.
For years, I’ve worked with women in deeply intimate relational spaces - where what shows up with their dogs is never just about the dog.
I watched them advocate fiercely for their dog's limits, then override their own without noticing. Let go of "good" for their dog - and keep performing it for everyone else.
When we finally named that split, behaviour shifted fast. As what they would and wouldn't do anymore in real time.
That's what's available here.
Inside Not A Fucking Good Girl Anymore, you'll finally name the patterns that have been running so long they feel like personality.
But they're not. They're strategies you learnt to survive. Like:
→ Taking on more than is yours like filling the gaps before anyone asks or making yourself indispensable so you feel safe
→ Anticipating reactions before you've even spoken and managing others' responses before they've even had one
→ The rapid-fire calculation that happens before every choice - how will this land, will they be okay, is this too much - so automatic you've stopped noticing it's there
→ Wrapping your truth in so much softness it loses its shape entirely. Saying the thing - but not quite. Close enough to feel honest but far enough to feel safe
→ Taking responsibility for what isn't yours including absorbing other people's discomfort or making their reaction your problem
→ Overriding the moment you feel something clearly and then talking yourself out of it
→ Tightening or collapsing under pressure when someone pushes back - you either brace — or you fold. Both are exits from yourself
In these 2 days, you'll learn to meet these patterns, live in your body, in real time and choosing differently.
So the next time it activates in your life, you are not reaching for something you had learned a long time ago.
You are already someone who does something different.
This immersion is for you if:
→ You’ve built your identity around being the one who adjusts, understands, and makes things work
→ You learned early how to be “mature” - reading the room, managing reactions, staying easy to love
→ You name what you really want - in a conversation, an offer, a price - and pivot last minute to something more “reasonable”
→ You notice the moment someone’s energy shifts mid-conversation - and immediately adjust, give more, or make it easier for them to stay
→ You know exactly what you want to say but you end up saying a version of it instead.
And you’re done being the version of you that edits herself in real time to stay acceptable.
You’re ready to lead your relationships and your business from what’s true - and let that change what can no longer stay.
Join the 2-day immersion for $33
The 2 Day Arc Inside Not A Fucking Good Girl Anymore
Across 2 days of live relational work, you'll step into the Feral Woman Archetype™ where you'll move from "I have to make it easier to be loved and chosen" to "I choose how I'm met" in relationships and business.
Day 1 : Rewriting "Good"
We’re not easing into this. We’re naming the moments where you:
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Over-function, and call it being reliable
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Manage everyone else, and call it care
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Override yourself, and call it maturity
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Stay agreeable to stay chosen
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Edit yourself before you even speak
The quiet deal you keep making: be acceptable, don’t disrupt, don’t need too much.
We’re breaking that wide fucking open.
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Catch it in real time
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Interrupt the reflex to smooth, fix, or absorb
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Tell the truth a beat earlier than you usually would
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Let it be uncomfortable instead of instantly resolving it
No performance or over-explaining or shrinking.
Because you don’t need to be less loving - you need a version of love that also includes you.
Day 2 : Feral As Fuck 😈
Day 1 was the diagnosis. Day 2 is the different choice, live, in your body, with nowhere to hide.
You'll be in real relational dynamics - not theory - practicing what it
actually feels like to:
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Speak before you've rehearsed it into safety
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Choose without building a case for it
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Let someone's discomfort sit without rushing to resolve it
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Hold your position when someone pushes - not by bracing against them, but by staying with yourself
This is where the pattern meets its first real interruption. Not in your journal. In the room.
You'll leave knowing the difference between folding and choosing - and what it feels like in your body when you're doing each.
This is the 2-day shift that rewrites the rules you’ve been playing by - in your relationships and your business.
30-31 May 2026, 6-8 PM IST on Zoom (+ limited time access to replays)
For most women, Not A Fucking Good Girl Anymore is a 2-day break from the habit of editing themselves in real time just to stay acceptable.
But for some of you, something won’t stop at “insight.”
If that happens, there’s another doorway.
I'll be opening FERAL - my 9-month container for women who are done shrinking in the exact moments it matters most.
Who want what they built in these 2 days to become who they actually are - in their relationships, their money, their work, and the conversations that used to cost them the most.
You’ll be invited in first, with an early-access bonus for those who choose to go deeper.
Let's start here first - the point where the good girl stops running the show.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
> What kind of women is this for?
Women who are done shrinking, over-explaining, or adjusting themselves to stay acceptable - and are ready to change how they actually show up.
> Is this just for relationships or also business?
Both. The same pattern shows up in how you relate, lead, sell, and decide.
> Is this therapy or coaching?
No. This is a live immersion focused on behaviour, pattern interruption, and how you show up in real situations - not analysis.
> What if I can’t attend live?
You’ll still get full lifetime access to the recordings. Live participation is highly recommended though.
> What happens after this immersion?
If you want deeper support, you’ll be invited into Feral - a 9-month container for integrating this shift into how you live, relate, and build.