My love, you were never meant to do this alone...
There’s a certain ache that comes with with choosing softness in a world obsessed with control.
It’s the ache of walking through dog spaces where your grief is too loud, your questions are too much, and your gentleness is mistaken for ignorance.
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It’s the ache of watching your dog struggle while your body screams “please don’t correct them,”
but every voice around you says you should.
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It’s the ache of being the only one in your circle who sees your dog as a sovereign being, who feels that pull in your chest when something doesn’t sit right, who can’t keep pretending that training techniques that flatten, suppress, and dominate are okay, even when they’re normalised.
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This work is somatic.
It lives in your nervous system.
It stirs up your history. It challenges your identity.
And it can feel profoundly lonely to walk this path in isolation.​
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That’s why community isn’t a luxury - it’s a lifeline.
You need a place where your softness isn’t something to toughen up.
Where your doubt isn’t something to overcome.
Where you can say, “I’m scared I’m doing harm by not following the rules,” and someone replies:
“I’ve been there. You’re not alone.”
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Because there is medicine in being witnessed.
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There is regulation in being seen, without correction, without advice, without fixing.
There is healing in being held by women who are in the messy middle too - women who are also walking away from rigidity, from compliance, from obedience-as-worth.
This isn’t just dog work.
It’s body work.
It’s inner child work.
It’s power work.
And we cannot and should not have to carry that in silence.
Held in community, The Sanctum becomes a gentle balm for your journey, supporting you as you shed toxic beliefs and untangle from the limiting norms of the outer world.
This is a global gathering of women - and those drawn to relational ways of being - who are making the radical shift from control to attunement in their relationships with their dogs. Together, we’re seeding a movement grounded in softness, love, and liberation.
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The Sanctum is a Telegram-based membership space for women who are choosing to walk away from coercion - and toward relational safety, emotional wisdom, and deep trust.
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​It’s a place to land when the rest of the world feels too loud.
When you’ve had enough of the “tips and tricks,” and you’re ready to build a life that’s rooted in something real - care, connection, and choice.
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It’s not just about your dog.
It’s about what gets restored in you when you stop trying to perform “good dog ownership” and start listening to your body, your instincts and your lived wisdom.
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It’s about honouring the parts of you that never felt safe to speak - and letting them guide you home.
It’s about making room for grief, for joy, for the quiet in-between spaces where healing actually happens.
It’s a rebellion wrapped in gentleness - a remembering that you were never meant to do this alone.
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Inside The Sanctum, we move slower. We listen deeper.
And we learn to trust that you - just as you are - were always enough.
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This is long-term support that doesn’t push, pressure, or impose.
It’s support that meets you - in your rhythms, your thresholds, your truth.
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You don’t have to keep up. You get to build trust — in yourself, in your dog, and in the life you’re creating together, at your own pace.
You don’t have to prove anything to belong here.
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You’re not “behind.” You’re not failing because you’re questioning what you were taught.
You’re waking up - to yourself, your dog, and the possibility of a different kind of relationship.
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The Sanctum is where that awakening becomes grounded, supported, and shared.
This space is for the woman who:
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Has been told she’s too sensitive, too permissive, too emotional and is done apologising for it
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Is unlearning systems of control in dog training, in relationships, in herself
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Feels deeply that her dog is not something to “fix,” but someone to be in relationship with
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Longs for a space where nervous system awareness, emotional attunement, and genuine connection matter more than perfection
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Craves to be witnessed, held and celebrated by women who are on the same journey as hers
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Desires support that feels calm and unintrusive, just gentle nudges along her journey
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What if the problem isn't you or your dog but how you've been taught to relate to them?
In traditional dog behaviour spaces, you’re taught how to get your dog to comply.
Success is measured by control, quietness, and "good" behavior - often defined by someone else’s standards.
You’re expected to follow methods and protocols, even when they conflict with your instincts.
Emotional overwhelm, grief, or uncertainty is often seen as weakness or "owner error," rather than a natural part of the process.
The experts speak, and you're expected to apply their advice - even when it doesn’t sit right in your body.
There’s little room for questioning, nuance, or slower, more relational ways of learning.
In The Sanctum, we do things differently.
We center connection over control, and curiosity over correction.
Your dog’s behaviour isn’t a problem to fix - it’s an invitation into deeper awareness, within yourself and your relationship.
You’re not asked to override your intuition. In fact, you’re supported in reclaiming it.
Emotional experiences - grief, rage, tenderness, uncertainty - are not judged, but gently held.
There is no one “right way” here - only your way, supported by a sisterhood that honours your pace and process.
You are not a project.
Your dog is not a performance.
You both deserve safety and sovereignty.
Here's everything that awaits you inside The Sanctum:
🔥 The Sanctum Broadcast
Soul-shifting audios on:
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Learning to sense and respond to your dog's emotional needs through presence, body awareness, and nervous system connection, moving beyond training into mutual trust and felt safety.
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Shedding perfectionism, people-pleasing, and urgency in favor of authenticity, boundaries, and grounded emotional truth and transforming how you relate not just to your dogs, but to yourself.
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Rebuilding internal safety through body-based practices that help both you and your dog feel anchored, calm, and emotionally held in everyday moments.
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Tending to grief, shame, and inherited relational wounds while opening space for deeper intimacy, softness, and relational abundance with your dog and others.
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Tune into these transmissions on-the-go…while you walk, do chores, take a power nap or simply be
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🔥 Global sisterhood on Telegram
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An intimate group of women to witness, celebrate, reflect and support each other in this journey of rewilding and reimagination​
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🔥 Exclusive offers on all programs
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As a member of The Sanctum, you receive exclusive access to discounted Luchi & Mutton’s offerings.
Inside The Sanctum, you’re not the black sheep.
You are the brave one. The one who listened to her body whisper “this isn’t it,” even when the world told her to override it.
The one who chose care over control, even when she had no map.
In this community, your questions are not a threat.
Your bigness is not too much.
Your tenderness is not naive.
Here, you are not alone in the forest - you are surrounded by a circle of women who know exactly what it’s like to stand in that same clearing, unsure and awake.
You weren’t meant to navigate this kind of depth alone.
Let us walk with you - gently, honestly, and at a pace that lets your body exhale.
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Hi, I'm Surabhi, your guide in The Sanctum
A canine relational coach to women who are ready to step into deep, meaningful attunement with their dogs through coregulation, healing and deep listening.
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Like many of the clients I work with, I’ve spent lots of time reading books, doing courses and consuming knowledge on getting things “right” with my dogs.
Don’t get me wrong - the knowledge I have gathered is sacred and has helped me get to this point. But the real wisdom lay in something I was overlooking - the quality of my relationship with my dogs. They were already giving me everything I needed to move into a safe, secure relationship with them - I just needed to cut the noise out and tune in.
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And when I did, I came into a more secure, empowered and regulated version of myself. It transformed my relationship with them into something sacred and timeless. But here's the magical thing - my relationship with my dogs became a practice ground for shifting the quality of my relationship with others and myself too.
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​The Sanctum is a sanctuary for women who need witnessing and support from the messiness that comes with learning and unlearning when you desire for relational abundance with your dog and others around you.
