Untamed

For women ready to embody their empowered selves, strengthen their marriage, and let their dog guide the way.

Untamed is a 6‑month group coaching journey designed to help you pause and respond instead of reacting, notice old survival patterns without being controlled by them, and experience moments with your dog and partner that feel deeply connected, calm, and clear- in ways you didn’t think were possible.

You came into your marriage ready to show up fully - tender, present, and open.

Yet over time, old survival patterns have been running the show, shaping how you show up more than your true self.

Like when you want to speak more vulnerable but you freeze - and instead, you talk about logistics, your day, or nothing at all. Later you feel frustrated because you meant to be real.

Or when your partner is sharing feedback, you want to stay open but defensiveness wins and you end up saying o, “that’s not what I meant,” or “you do that too,” even though part of you wanted to just listen

Or you're seeking connection and reassurance but fear/pride comes in the way and you act distant or overly independent instead of asking for what you need.

Or when your partner asks for something you don't have capacity for, you want to set a boundary but people pleasing steps in and you end up feeling resentful and depleted later.

This doesn't mean you're failing at presence - it just means that your nervous system hasn't caught up yet.

Because survival moves faster than insight.

It's not about having a "perfect" marriage.

But you do want a marriage that feels safe to you without having to abandon yourself.

You want to speak honestly without bracing for impact.

To share what’s tender without rehearsing it first.

To trust that your needs won’t make you too much, or invisible.

You want to stay present in hard moments instead of armouring up.

To listen without feeling like you have to defend herself.

To ask for reassurance without shame.

To say no without fearing disconnection.

You want repair that doesn’t take days of distance.

Closeness that doesn’t require over-functioning.

A partnership where you doesn’t have to choose between honesty and harmony.

And this is where marriage brings everything alive.

Because marriage doesn’t just ask for love.

It asks for consistency - showing up again and again, even when old patterns are loud.

It asks for vulnerability - not once, but repeatedly, especially when it feels risky.

And it asks for repair - returning after rupture instead of protecting yourself by staying gone.

That’s why the tension feels so alive here.

Marriage touches the places where survival once kept you safe.

And now quietly keeps you from being fully seen.

Maybe you learned to be self-sufficient, so when your partner asks what you need, you say “I’m fine,” even when you’re not.

Or you learned to be strong, so you show competence instead of tenderness and keep your pain to yourself.

Maybe you learned to explain yourself, so when your partner shares hurt, you defend your intent instead of letting their feelings land.

Or you learned to withdraw, so after conflict you go quiet, even though what you want is repair.

Or you learned to minimise, so you say “it’s not a big deal” and keep the part of you that needs care hidden.

None of these patterns are wrong - they are intelligent adaptations.

But marriage is the place where what once kept you safe can no longer take you where you want to go.

Because being fully seen requires risk.

And survival was never built for risk - only for protection.

And so your marriage keeps inviting a new question:

Is it safe enough now to let myself be known?

And you’ve moved through something similar with your dog, too...

Experiencing for the first time what it feels like to be truly seen, safe, and connected

With your dog, the stakes feel lower.

There’s no fear of being misunderstood or getting it wrong.

You don’t have to explain yourself or hold it together.

Presence is enough.

When you’re tired, you can be quiet. When you’re tender, you can soften.

Your dog meets you right where you are.

So that relationship becomes a safe landing place -
a place where your guard drops and your nervous system can rest.

Not because it matters more than your marriage,
but because it’s simpler.

And in that simplicity, your body remembers what safety feels like.

And that remembering is what slowly makes more connection possible everywhere else, too.

And you've tried a lot of things to make this happen in your marriage.

You’ve tried sharing your longing for deeper connection but it sounds vague and unclear.

You’ve spoken to friends and family, only to hear:
"You think too much." "Everyone feels like that sometimes."
"Just enjoy what you have."

You’ve read the books - The 5 Love Languages, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus - and even watched Couples Therapy, hoping insight would unlock something.

You’ve gone to therapy, mapped your patterns, learned your triggers, and practiced breathing through charged moments.

You’ve lowered expectations, started date nights, put phones away at dinner, and met disconnection with patience and grace.

And still, the tension persists.

Because everything you’ve tried - behavioural fixes, insights, trying to change the discomfort altogether - works at the level of thought and action.

But the work really lies in the nervous system. And nervous system work isn’t about eliminating the tension.

It’s about meeting it with kindness and presence - the kind of presence where you can notice survival patterns showing up, but still anchor in something steady.

Something that allows you to move through the tension without collapsing, second-guessing yourself, or questioning the relationship.

This is where Untamed comes in.

Untamed helps women expand their nervous system capacity, first through their relationship with their dog and then into their marriage.

By reconnecting with the 5 Untamed Instincts™, you'll learn to meet your survival patterns with presence and kindness, soften tension in real time, and respond from grounded awareness rather than habit.

The instincts create safety in both relationships: with your dog, you'll start to feel fully embodied and alive; with your partner, you'll show up consistently, tenderly, and authentically.

Over time, your survival patterns stop running the show, and your untamed, present self - the one who is playful, curious, expressive, loving, and vital - can finally thrive in both love and life.

Step Inside Untamed

Pricing plans available at USD 300/month for 6 months

What you'll experience inside Untamed

Even if you’ve never consciously worked on your nervous system or patterns before, here’s what stepping into Untamed can help you do - in real, everyday moments of your marriage and life:

Pause and respond instead of reacting when your partner withdraws or behaves in ways that used to trigger you

Ask for reassurance without guilt and actually receive it, without over-explaining or apologising

Speak your truth with presence, even in tension-filled moments, instead of shutting down, defending, or over-explaining

Set boundaries without fear of disconnection, so your needs are honored and your relationships stay safe

Bring playfulness, curiosity, and joy back into your marriage - and feel your dog mirroring your aliveness

Notice old survival patterns without being controlled by them, and step into your authentic, untamed self consistently

Experience moments of calm, clarity, and relational flow you didn’t think were possible - whether during a difficult conversation, a quiet evening at home, or a walk with your dog

This is not about theory or trying harder - it’s about practicing presence in real time with your dog and your partner, so that old patterns naturally lose their grip and your full, untamed self can show up in both love and life.

What you get inside Untamed

Here's what becomes possible through Untamed...

It's Friday evening and you were hoping to spend some quality time with your partner. Instead, they're scrolling on their phone, distracted and it triggers the old survival pattern in your - the one that rushes to people-please, stay small or withdraw in frustration.

Normally, you'd either snap, sulk or push yourself to keep the pace, leaving the tension unresolved.

This time, you notice the familiar tightening in your chest. You pause and connect with the grounding presence you've practiced with your dog - calm, accepting and attentive. You check in with your body and your instincts.

You speak from a grounded place: "I was really looking forward to connecting tonight. Can we put our phones aside and spend time together?"

Instead of defensiveness or withdrawal, your partner listens. The tension softens. You both sit together, present and engaged and the evening flows into real connection.

This is the power of Untamed: noticing your survival patterns, anchoring in your nervous system and responding with presence - transforming moments of disconnection into connection, over and over again.

The 5 Untamed Instincts™ give women a way to move through tension without collapsing or second-guessing themselves.

Years of conditioning - responsibility, over-functioning, emotional suppression - bury the instincts that are natural, wild, and life-giving.

Anchoring into these instincts isn’t about trying harder; it’s about reconnecting with your nervous system through your dog, who mirrors them back with unwavering honesty.

Playfulness

Inviting joy and spontaneity, softening your nervous system and lightening relational heaviness.

Curiosity

Exploring without judgment, notice your body, and see relationships with fresh eyes.

Authentic Expression

Speaking your truth and expressing needs without self-abandonment.

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Love

Attaching deeply and safely and letting vulnerability be strength.

Vitality

Inhabiting your body, desires, and presence fully, showing up grounded and alive.

How Untamed creates this shift for you:

Your everyday interactions with your dog — play, walks, quiet check-ins, the tough moments - act as real-time mirrors of your nervous system.

Untamed helps you notice tension, survival impulses, and habitual patterns as they arise - then practice regulating them in the moment.

As your nervous system settles, you naturally shift how you show up: responding with presence instead of reacting, speaking your truth without over-functioning, and co-creating connection rather than performing for safety.

These micro-shifts ripple outward into your marriage - conversations flow with trust and tenderness, intimacy deepens, playfulness returns, and your authentic, wild self can shine.

Untamed supports each step through the 5 Untamed Instincts™ helping you move through tension and anchor in your full self while offering :

𓃥 Guided reflection prompts to notice your impulses and patterns

𓃥 Presence practices that anchor nervous system regulation

𓃥 Supportive community to practice in real life and get attuned feedback

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Inside The Untamed Journey

This is a six-month, presence-based group coaching journey - not a course to complete, but a living container to step into. Rather than consuming content on your own and trying to “apply” it later, this work unfolds in real time, alongside your actual marriage, your real nervous system, and the day-to-day mirrors your dog is offering.

𓂀 Telegram is your nervous system support space

A private space organised by each Untamed Instinct for teachings, reflections and micro-practices. Move at your own pace, practice in real life and engage without pressure - quiet participation is perfectly fine.

𓂀 Live & Somatic Integration

Monthly Zoom calls & somatic sessions help you unbody the 5 Untamed Instincts™, metabolise patterns and integrate insights fully./

𓂀 Guided reflection & witnessing

Gentle prompts and invitations for reflection and shared witnessing inside the group space - no fixing, advising, or performing. This keeps the container clean, regulated, and deeply supportive

𓂀 Alumni Library

After completion, access a private audio library to continue integrating the work at your own pace.

The live experience is about presence. The alumni space is about integration.

What Untamed isn't:

A quick-fix relationship guide - it’s about long-term inner and relational growth, not instant solutions;

Marriage counseling - but rather a reflective and experiential pathway, distinct from professional therapy;

A provocation to abandon your marriage - instead, it focuses on deepening connection with your partner;

A solo journey - rather, it unfolds within a group coaching container with other women, guided by me as your coach, alongside the support of your partner and the grounding presence of your dog;

Superficial self-help sessions - it dives into emotional, relational, and spiritual depth, offering space for your full, untamed self to emerge and thrive.

Untamed is for you if you:

Feel like survival patterns - tension, over-functioning, people-pleasing - have taken over your life and marriage

Long to show up fully, wild, and authentic without fear of judgment

Want to deepen intimacy, trust, and connection with your partner

Desire a playful, embodied relationship with your dog, your partner and yourself

Crave guidance to navigate difficult conversations with clarity, tenderness, and presence

Are ready to reclaim your curiosity, joy, authentic expression, untamed love, and vitality

Want a supportive community and real-time nervous-system coaching, not just theory

Be Among the First to Step Inside Untamed

Since this is the very first time this container is launching, you have the opportunity to pioneer your own transformation alongside a small, intimate group of women who are ready to reclaim presence, playfulness, and authenticity in their marriages and relationships.

You won’t be following someone else’s path - you’ll be experiencing the work in real time, noticing your survival patterns, and practicing presence as it arises in your everyday life with your partner and your dog.

Your early enrollment also comes with extra support and guidance, ensuring you have space to explore, integrate, and grow fully — making your experience not just a course, but a living, relational journey

Untamed isn’t a course to complete or a quick-fix guide. It’s a living, relational practice that helps you pause instead of react, speak your truth without fear, and feel safe in connection - even when old survival patterns show up.

Every session, reflection, and interaction is designed to expand your nervous system, deepen intimacy, and strengthen your bond with your dog - so the change you experience is felt, embodied, and lasting.

INVESTMENT OPTIONS:

Payment plans included

This 6-month journey is an investment in yourself, your marriage, and your relationship with your dog. For a transformation you’ll feel every day in how you show up, connect, and live.

Early Investment: US $225/month for 6 months

INR Investment: ₹20,500/month for 6 months

(Investment increases to US $300/month soon)

You can choose:

6 x monthly payments of USD 225
9 x monthly payments of USD 150

Payment plans are here to serve your spaciousness - not your scarcity.

This investment gives you:

Real-time nervous system coaching with your dog as your mirror
Practices to pause, respond, and stay grounded in tension-filled moments
Guidance to reclaim your curiosity, playfulness, authentic expression, untamed love, and vitality
Support to co-create a marriage that’s honest, tender, and alive
A community and container that holds your growth without judgment or pressure

Your early enrollment includes:

Access to the Telegram community + welcome audio journeys!
Immediate access to Wild Belonging Immersion replays to kickstart your journey
Complimentary 1:1 coaching call before Jan 17, 2026 (when Untamed officially begins)

Say yes now to secure the early-bird investment and immediate access to tools and practices that accelerate your transformation - both financially and experientially.

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Hi, I'm Surabhi, your guide

Almost two years ago, I came to a quiet but life-altering conclusion:

if things continued the way they were in my marriage, I would have to walk away.

Not because we were having problems in the traditional sense - but because the woman I was being and the woman I was becoming were at complete odds.

The “married woman” role had wrapped around me so tightly - the need to please, to keep the peace, to not ruffle too many feathers - that I could barely breathe.

It was stifling, like living in a version of love that required me to keep shrinking to stay safe.

And then, through my relationship with my dogs, I started to feel something deep within me begin to shift.

Through their presence, I remembered what it felt like to be met with unconditional presence - to be seen, felt, and accepted exactly as I was.

They showed me how to love without control, to express emotion without shame, to rest into a safety that was both fierce and freeing.

With them, I began to remember who I was beneath the conditioning.

To reclaim my voice, my boundaries, my tenderness.

To rewild my way of loving - bringing play, honesty, and aliveness back to the center.

And slowly, to re-root my marriage in something deeper and truer - a connection where both my partner and I could grow, stretch, and be fully ourselves.

Untaming your marriage isn’t a one-time awakening.

It’s a practice - a living, breathing journey of remembering, softening, and meeting yourself more fully each time.

Untamed is unlike any other coaching or relationship program.

It doesn't just focus on communication skills, therapy techniques or "fixing" anything. Instead, it works at the level of that really shapes how you show up: your nervous system.

And it does so through the relationship you already have with your dog - a living mirror of your presence, aliveness and patterns.

No other program combines:

Marriage transformation - deepening intimacy, trust and honest connection

Nervous system work - learning to pause, respond and regulate in real time

Relational learning with your dog - practicing authenticity, playfulness and safety in a way that translates directly to your marriage.

This triad creates a safe, embodied path showing up fully, tenderly and consistently in both love and life.

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FAQs

+ Is this a course or a coaching program?

This is a presence-based group coaching journey, not a traditional course. While teachings are shared, the heart of this container is live relational work - seeing patterns as they arise in real life and integrating them over time. If you’re looking for a self-paced curriculum to complete, this may not be the right fit.

+ Why is everything inside Telegram instead of a course portal?

Because this work is lived, relational, and responsive. Telegram allows teachings to be shared in real time, alongside reflection, witnessing, and integration - rather than being consumed in isolation. It also reduces pressure to “keep up” or perform.

+ What if I’m more private and don’t want to share in a group?

That’s completely okay. You’re never required to share in Telegram or on calls. Many women experience profound shifts simply by listening, reflecting, and integrating privately. You’ll receive what you need whether you’re vocal or quiet.

+ What if there’s nothing “wrong” with my marriage?

That’s often exactly where this work begins. This journey isn’t about fixing problems or creating drama where there is none. It’s about how you show up inside your relationship - your nervous system, your patterns, your capacity for connection and self-leadership.

You don’t need to be in crisis or questioning your marriage to benefit from this work. Many women join because things are “fine,” yet they sense there’s more aliveness, depth, or ease available. This work does not require certainty - only honesty.

+ How many women will be inside this container?

This is a rolling container. Women may enter at different times, and each woman commits to six months. This allows the group to stay alive and relational while still offering flexibility around when you begin.

Have more questions? Email them to me at surabhi@luchiandmuttons.com

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Authentic Expression

Untamed Love

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Be Among the First to Step Inside Untamed

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Hi, I'm Surabhi, your guide

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