Through high-touch support over 6 months and the wisdom of your dog, you’ll reconnect with the untamed parts of yourself (and your partner) , transforming your marriage into a living expression of authenticity, freedom, and wild devotion.
You stepped into your marriage hoping for a lifetime of witnesssing, tenderness and emotional safety.
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But lately, it feels like something has slipped away. Not just between you - but within you.
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Through your own healing journey, you’ve started hearing your own truth more clearly. Even your quiet moments with your dog have become mirrors of presence and connection, teaching you how it feels to be fully met and understood without words.
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Like when there's a sound outside and your body becomes alert. Your dog turns to look at you, checking in, "did you hear that" - and you smile, because now your nervous system isn't the only one listening.
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And now, you can’t help but notice how different that feels from the rhythm of your marriage.
The relationship still seems to be shaped around the woman you were - not the one you’ve grown into.​
There's a quiet, persistent longing for a marriage where...
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​Every time your partner walks through the door, you do a little happy dance because you just can’t help it - the same way your dog’s tail wags uncontrollably..that pure, joyful energy of them being home;
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You stay up too late, talking about everything and nothing -laughing until your cheeks hurt, spilling the tea, sharing stories and the kind of secrets that make you feel seen.
Hard, uncomfortable conversations no longer feel like walking through fire, but more like leaning into warmth - words flowing honestly, tenderly, with a trust that keeps deepening;
Playfulness becomes your love language - tickle fights in the kitchen, wrestling on the bed, laughter tangled up in love - the kind of moments that make you feel like a child again;
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​You’ve wanted to bring your evolving self into your marriage and, to hold space for your partner to do the same.
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And yet, something keeps coming between you and that vision.
Not something dramatic - but something subtle, familiar.
An old rhythm that still hums beneath the surface.
The part of you that says "I'm fine" when you are actually overwhelmed and dysregulated.
That freezes when you've been asked to name your desires and wants because you've never thought about them.
The part of you that slips back into the "good daughter" role - deferring, shrinking and changing the pitch of your laughter when you're around family.
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That “something” is the old relational pattern that hasn’t yet caught up with your growth -
an invisible loyalty to who you once were.
A pattern that asks you to keep the marriage tamed -steady, safe, contained -
even as another part of you stirs awake.
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And as you grow, you can feel her... the wilder, more alive version of you who no longer wants to mute her edges.
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And no matter how much you try to reach for that kind of connection, it keeps slipping through your fingers - leaving you tired, frustrated, and wondering if the love you long for is truly possible.​
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And you have really tried.
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You’ve tried to bring more truth into your marriage - lying in bed, whispering, “I miss who we used to be.”
But your partner reaches for your hand, mistaking habit for connection. And you hold on anyway because love, for you, has become meeting halfway across silence;
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​You’ve shared your longing for this deeper intimacy with friends and family, only to be met with confusion or quiet dismissal - "You think too much. Just enjoy what you have", or "everyone feels like that sometimes. It’ll pass";
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You’ve read The 5 Love Languages and Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, even caught up on a few episodes of Couples' Therapy to get some insight;
Explored your patterns in therapy, identified your triggers and practiced breathing techniques in charged moments;
You’ve adjusted expectations, initiated rituals of closeness like date nights or no screen time during dinner together, trying to meet disconnection with grace.
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​​But the marriage keeps meeting an older version of you -the one who carried, soothed, made space for everyone else’s comfort.
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And this is hard AF.
Because maybe you’ve never had a relational blueprint for what it means to co-create a marriage that’s truly alive - one that keeps evolving alongside who you’re becoming.
But...what if that blueprint does exist?
What if it has already been forming - quietly, naturally...in how you love your dog?
You've already created deep emotional connection - a bond rooted in safety, trust, and unconditional presence.
That bond didn’t just happen by accident; it’s a reflection of your capacity to attune, to nurture, and to love without losing yourself.
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Over time, you’ve learned to notice old patterns and ideas, pause, and respond differently. You’ve discovered new, more alive ways of relating: with patience, presence, curiosity, and joy.
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​In Untamed, we turn to that very relationship as both mirror and mentor - a living relational blueprint that celebrates who you are becoming and evolving into.
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The same qualities that make your bond with your dog so profound - safety, attunement, play, honesty - can ripple into your marriage too.
​​And as you lead this shift, something begins to stir.
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In the way you move, the way you speak, the way you inhabit your own body. Your whole energy begins to move differently.
Allowing your untamed self to take up more space - not from rebellion, but from deep self-honouring.​​​
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That looks like you...
Finally saying yes to the dance class you’ve always wanted to take;
Launching the business that’s been whispering at the edges of your heart;
Writing the book you’ve carried for years, or painting just for the joy of it, or planning that solo trip that has always felt "selfish";
Having the conversation you’ve been avoiding, setting the boundary that once felt impossible, or allowing yourself to rest, really rest, without guilt.
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Your marriage starts to become a secure base from which you can stretch, wander, and return.
Much like your relationship with your dog, it becomes a place of attuned safety, where love is steady enough to hold your evolution.
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And this freedom doesn’t take you away from your partner - it draws you deeper into intimacy, into mutual aliveness, into a rhythm of love that expands as you do.
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Your ambitions and desires don't feel separate from the relationship, but are nourished by it. And your partner becomes your witness, your supporter, your mirror.
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Your relationship now becomes a place where you begin, a home from which your womanhood unfolds: untamed, embodied, and uniquely your own.​
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"When I started working with Surabhi, I felt really disconnected in my marriage. I felt like we’d lost our spark, and all I could feel was frustration and anger because I’d stopped feeling like myself. I was constantly worried that speaking up would make everything fall apart.
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Through our time together, I realised that staying silent was only making things worse.
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When I finally found my way back to my outspoken, true self, I was able to have honest conversations with my partner. That didn’t make things worse -they helped my relationship grow and opened up a deeper, more authentic connection between us."
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- Sahaana, Independent Consultant
What Untamed isn't:
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A quick-fix relationship guide - it’s about long-term inner and relational growth, not instant solutions; ​
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Marriage counseling - but rather a reflective and experiential pathway, distinct from professional therapy;​
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A provocation to abandon your marriage - instead, it focuses on deepening connection with your partner;​
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A solo journey - rather, it unfolds within a group coaching container with other women, guided by me as your coach, alongside the support of your partner and the grounding presence of your dog;​
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Superficial self-help sessions - it dives into emotional, relational, and spiritual depth, offering space for your full, untamed self to emerge and thrive.
Are you ready to step over a threshold?​
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Untamed is a rite of passage - a sacred pathway for married women ready to reconnect with the aliveness of who they are and the partnership they long to create.
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Through The 5 Untamed Instincts™ , you will discover how your wild self and heart converge - giving space for your full emotional and relational life to thrive.​​
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And through it all, your bond with your dog shows up as your secure base: a living reminder of safety, presence, and unconditional acceptance, grounding you as you step into the courage to bring your full, untamed self into your marriage.
Inside Untamed, you’ll be guided to...
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Trust your inner compass as it leads you to clarity about what kind of marriage truly aligns with your heart
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Craft your unique vision for your marriage and bring it to life through passion and purpose
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Initiate a powerful energetic shift within your relationship - one grounded in witnessing, safety, communication, and emotional intimacy
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​Lead this transformation, not from a place of collapse, overgiving, or self-abandonment, but from deep self-trust and empowerment
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Walk this path with a circle of women who truly get it - women who, like you, are ready to shed the roles, expectations, and silence that have kept them small, and instead step fully into their wild, radiant selves.
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Untamed is the space where you will be guided to co-create a marriage that reflects your truth. Your fire. Your depth.
A relationship that is alive, reciprocal, and utterly aligned with the woman you’ve always been becoming.
Hi, I'm Surabhi, your guide
Almost two years ago, I came to a quiet but life-altering conclusion:
if things continued the way they were in my marriage, I would have to walk away.
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Not because we were having problems in the traditional sense - but because the woman I was being and the woman I was becoming were at complete odds.
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The “married woman” role had wrapped around me so tightly - the need to please, to keep the peace, to not ruffle too many feathers - that I could barely breathe.
It was stifling, like living in a version of love that required me to keep shrinking to stay safe.
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And then, through my relationship with my dogs, I started to feel something deep within me begin to shift.
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Through their presence, I remembered what it felt like to be met with unconditional presence - to be seen, felt, and accepted exactly as I was.
They showed me how to love without control, to express emotion without shame, to rest into a safety that was both fierce and freeing.
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With them, I began to remember who I was beneath the conditioning.
To reclaim my voice, my boundaries, my tenderness.
To rewild my way of loving - bringing play, honesty, and aliveness back to the center.
And slowly, to re-root my marriage in something deeper and truer - a connection where both my partner and I could grow, stretch, and be fully ourselves.
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Untaming your marriage isn’t a one-time awakening.
It’s a practice - a living, breathing journey of remembering, softening, and meeting yourself more fully each time.
Here's what clients have to say:
"What's great about working with someone like Surabhi is that the coaching is focused on my desire and vision and how I want to feel as opposed to her telling me what it "should" be."
"This is one of few spaces where I have felt no shame or judgement for expressing myself...and honestly the safety to be my most weird, authentic self."
"We've spoken about my relationship with my dog, my parents, my partner, with money - every topic is welcome in conversations with her. It really feels holistic."
The Untamed Journey
Over six months, we will move through a journey of remembering, reclaiming, rewilding, and reconnecting with the 5 Untamed Instincts™ that live at the heart of our - and our dogs’ -instinctual selves.
Playfulness
Women are often taught to mute their joy, but when she lets herself be playful and unfiltered - like a dog who leaps and wiggles without asking permission - her nervous system softens, her relationships lighten, and her dog feels her aliveness, not just her responsibility.
Curiosity
Women often lose natural curiosity to overthinking and self-judgment, but when she learns to sense and explore without needing certainty, life fills with wonder again and her relationships deepen. And who better teachers than dogs for this?
Authentic Expression
Women are often conditioned to hide their true feelings, but when she expresses herself honestly - like a dog who shows emotion without performance - communication deepens, her relationships grow more intimate, and her dog responds to her newfound congruence.
Women are often taught to restrain their love, but when she allows herself to attach fully - like a dog who loves with its whole body - her vulnerability becomes strength, partnerships deepen, and her dog feels emotionally safe in her presence.
Vitality
Women are often taught to ignore their bodies and override their desires, but when she inhabits herself fully -l ke a dog alive in instinct and presence - her vitality returns, relationships shift, her dog relaxes into her grounded energy, and her life finally feels like it fits
Untamed
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When you reclaim these 5 Untamed Instincts™, you become more alive, grounded, intuitive, expressed , connected, powerful - more yourself.
Your dog responds to your authenticity, your relationships transform, and your marriage softens and deepens.
Your entire world expands as you return to the truth of who you are.
Your instincts were never lost - only dormant, waiting for a dog to help you remember.
Inside The Untamed Journey
This is a six-month, presence-based group coaching journey - not a course to complete, but a living container to step into. Rather than consuming content on your own and trying to “apply” it later, this work unfolds in real time, alongside your actual marriage, your real nervous system, and the day-to-day mirrors your dog is offering.
ð“‚€ Telegram is our primary home
All teachings, reflections, and transmissions live inside a private Telegram space, organised by each Untamed Instinct.
Each instinct has its own dedicated channel, allowing you to move slowly, revisit what’s alive for you, and engage in a way that feels nourishing rather than overwhelming.
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You’re not required to move through the material linearly. You’re invited to follow what your life - and your dog - are already revealing.
ð“‚€ Live Coaching on Zoom - twice a month
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We meet regularly for live, embodied coaching and integration. These calls are where patterns are seen, relationships are metabolised, and insight becomes lived change. This rhythm offers consistency, safety, and depth without urgency or pressure.
𓂀 Guided reflection & witnessing (no peer pressure)​
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There are no formal peer circles. Instead, you’ll receive gentle prompts and invitations for reflection and shared witnessing inside the group space - without fixing, advising, or performing. This keeps the container clean, regulated, and deeply supportive
At the completion of your journey, you’ll receive access to a private alumni audio library, where core teachings and refined transmissions are housed. This allows you to continue integrating the work without needing to stay inside the live container.
The live experience is about presence. The alumni space is about integration.
What women are saying:
INVESTMENT OPTIONS:​
Payment plans included
December 2025 Price: US $1800
INR Investment: ₹26,000/month for 6 months
(Investment increases to US $2250 starting Jan 1, 2026)
This is the most resourced price Untamed will ever be offered at - a reflection of your early yes and devotion to this work.
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Get immediate access to replays of the Wild Belonging Immersion replays to kicktsrat your journey inside Untamed
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$1800 pay in full
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6 x monthly payments of £300
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9 x monthly payments of £200
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Payment plans are here to serve your spaciousness - not your scarcity.
What you get when you sign up now:
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Immediate access to the WILD BELONGING IMMERSION
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Complimentary 1:1 coaching call with me before 17 January 2026 (that's when Untamed officially begins)
FAQs​
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​+ Is this a course or a coaching program?
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This is a presence-based group coaching journey, not a traditional course.​ While teachings are shared, the heart of this container is live relational work - seeing patterns as they arise in real life and integrating them over time. If you’re looking for a self-paced curriculum to complete, this may not be the right fit.
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+ Why is everything inside Telegram instead of a course portal?​
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Because this work is lived, relational, and responsive. Telegram allows teachings to be shared in real time, alongside reflection, witnessing, and integration - rather than being consumed in isolation. It also reduces pressure to “keep up” or perform.
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+ What if I’m more private and don’t want to share in a group?​
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That’s completely okay. You’re never required to share in Telegram or on calls. Many women experience profound shifts simply by listening, reflecting, and integrating privately. You’ll receive what you need whether you’re vocal or quiet.
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+ What if there’s nothing “wrong” with my marriage?
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That’s often exactly where this work begins. This journey isn’t about fixing problems or creating drama where there is none. It’s about how you show up inside your relationship - your nervous system, your patterns, your capacity for connection and self-leadership.
You don’t need to be in crisis or questioning your marriage to benefit from this work. Many women join because things are “fine,” yet they sense there’s more aliveness, depth, or ease available. This work does not require certainty - only honesty.
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+ How many women will be inside this container?
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This is a rolling container. Women may enter at different times, and each woman commits to six months. This allows the group to stay alive and relational while still offering flexibility around when you begin.
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Have more questions? Email them to me at surabhi@luchiandmuttons.com​